Finding Your True Self in the Chaos of Motherhood: Lessons from Inside Out 2
Ellie Messinger-Adams Ellie Messinger-Adams

Finding Your True Self in the Chaos of Motherhood: Lessons from Inside Out 2

In Inside Out 2, Pixar masterfully explores the complexities of adolescence through the lens of emotions, introducing Anxiety as a pivotal character in Riley's journey. As she navigates the challenges of being a 13-year-old, Riley's experience with Anxiety resonates deeply with mothers, highlighting the parallels between teenage angst and maternal anxiety. Just as Riley learns to balance her emotions, mothers must also manage their worries without letting them dominate their lives. The film serves as a poignant reminder that while anxiety can be overwhelming, it is a protective part of us, urging us to reconnect with our core values and navigate the beautiful, messy adventure of motherhood. By embracing our emotions and understanding their roles, we can foster a more balanced approach to parenting and self-discovery.

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When Your Birth Experience Shapes Your Motherhood: Understanding the Connection
Ellie Messinger-Adams Ellie Messinger-Adams

When Your Birth Experience Shapes Your Motherhood: Understanding the Connection

Uncover the powerful connection between birth experiences and motherhood anxiety. Learn how your birth story impacts your parenting journey, with up to 17% of new parents experiencing birth-related PTSD. Discover practical steps to address birth trauma and find support. Whether you had a difficult delivery or NICU stay, understanding this link is crucial for your well-being as a mother.

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 The Pitfall of Polarized Thinking for Overwhelmed Moms
Ellie Messinger-Adams Ellie Messinger-Adams

The Pitfall of Polarized Thinking for Overwhelmed Moms

As a therapist specializing in helping anxious and overwhelmed moms, I see polarized thinking as one of the biggest pitfalls that keeps mothers stuck and struggling. The "all or nothing" mentality of polarized thinking creates a harsh inner critic of constant judgment - you're either the perfect mom or a total failure, with no room for nuance or balance.

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Finding Resilience on Memorial Day
Ellie Messinger-Adams Ellie Messinger-Adams

Finding Resilience on Memorial Day

As we acknowledge Memorial Day, a solemn occasion to honor the brave men and women who made the ultimate sacrifice in service to our nation, I'm reminded of the incredible resilience it takes to face life's most difficult challenges. Whether enduring the unimaginable grief of losing a loved one in combat or carrying on through the physical and emotional wounds of war, our military families know resilience in a profound way….

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Embracing Grounding: Nurturing Flexibility and Stability in Motherhood
Ellie Messinger-Adams Ellie Messinger-Adams

Embracing Grounding: Nurturing Flexibility and Stability in Motherhood

Unlock the transformative potential of grounding in motherhood, empowering you to navigate parenting challenges with resilience. Utilizing insights from Internal Family Systems therapy and the Suzuki technique, discover practical strategies for connecting with your inner Self, setting boundaries, and embracing imperfection.

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Navigating Parenthood: Childhood Trauma
Ellie Messinger-Adams Ellie Messinger-Adams

Navigating Parenthood: Childhood Trauma

Navigating early parenthood while carrying the weight of childhood trauma can be a complex journey. It's common for different aspects of our past to resurface during this transformative experience.

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