Hi, I’m Ellie,
a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in North County San Diego and across California
I specialize in supporting moms navigating what I call the Motherhood Midlife Crisis—that space where you’re no longer who you were, not quite who you expected to be, and not totally sure who you are now. This messy, transformative in-between can bring anxiety, grief, overwhelm, and deep uncertainty. My work centers on helping moms feel more grounded, more like themselves, and more confident in who they’re becoming.
As a mom of two, this work is deeply personal to me. My first steps into motherhood looked nothing like the idealized version I had imagined. I pushed my body too hard out of fear of letting others down. I experienced postpartum depression and anxiety and struggled to bond with my daughter. Breastfeeding felt like a battlefield—my past breast reduction limited my milk supply, and her tongue tie made latching nearly impossible. Overwhelmed by outside “expertise,” I stopped trusting my instincts.
I’ll never forget the moment I broke down, holding my hungry baby and telling my husband, “No, don’t give her that bottle. If I just make her hungry enough, she’ll figure it out.” The guilt, the inner critic screaming that I’d failed her—it was rock bottom.
What pulled me through was support. And it showed me something I now carry into every session: your ability to bond with your child is directly tied to your mental and emotional wellbeing. When I had my second baby—during the chaos of COVID—I approached postpartum with more emotional preparation, and even though challenges came, I felt steadier.
This journey reshaped not only how I mother, but how I show up as a therapist. I shifted my entire focus to working with moms because I know what’s at stake. When moms are supported, they don’t just survive motherhood—they grow into it. And their children benefit in powerful ways.
With a background as a professional school counselor and child therapist, I bring a layered, relational lens to the work. I also offer parenting support to help moms grow into their role as guides for their children—with compassion, boundaries, and clarity.
At ēma therapy, I combine mindfulness, somatic tools, and evidence-based practices to help you feel more like you. Whether you’re preparing for baby, working through postpartum anxiety or depression, or trying to find your footing in the chaos of daily parenting—I’m here. You don’t have to do this alone.
As the founder and therapist behind ēma therapy, I help women reconnect with their core energy—the grounded, powerful force I like to call the mama warrior.
The name ēma holds deep meaning. It’s made up of my own initials (E.M.A.), but it’s more than that. Ēma is the Hebrew word for mother, and Ma is a yogic term that represents the universal mother spirit—nurturing, protective, and wise.
This practice is built around those values. Together, we create a safe, supportive space where your voice matters, your story is honored, and your most authentic self is welcomed. Therapy with me is about returning to that grounded version of you—not the version that’s “perfect,” but the one that feels whole, steady, and deeply you.
License and Education
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, California #14196
MA Counselor Education: Western Michigan University
Certificate Level Perinatal Mental Health Professional Training: Postpartum Support International
TheraPlay® Level 1 Training: TheraPlay Institute
Somatic Sessions Training: Soleil Hepner C-IAYT
Brainspotting 2-day Workshop w/ David Grand: Pesi
IFS Comprehensive Training (In Progress): Pesi
Are you ready to break free from the cycle of perfectionism and people-pleasing to become the mom you truly want to be?
Let’s work together to help you find balance, rediscover your true self, and thrive without sacrificing your needs. Schedule your free 15-minute intro call TODAY—I’m here to support you every step of the way!